Ramis Lao

About Me: Hello! I'm a Cuddle Party Facilitator from Mexico City. I host Cuddle Parties as part of a project called Nectoma, which I co-founded with a very close friend of mine. We also organize other consent-based events where people can meet, play, have deep conversations, and build friendships and community. Additionally, we give workshops about consent, limits, communication, and more 🙂 If you want to know more about our project, you can find us on Instagram as "Nectoma" (everything is in Spanish)! Besides my work with cuddles and consent, I'm also an improv theatre enthusiast and I design and develop videogames. I love community building, play, and creating things!

Favorite Cuddle Party Rule: "If you're a Yes to an invitation, say Yes; if you're a No, say No" I love this one because it has had a big impact on my life. I'm tend to be a people-pleaser, and I struggle a lot with saying "no" to invitations or requests from others. I'm practicing now saying "no" when I don't want to do something, also as a habit of self-care.

What I got out of Cuddle Party personally: I feel that I've grown a lot from hosting Cuddle Parties. A lot of my close platonic relationships now include cuddling. I have learnt to say "no" to the things I don't want and I have also learnt to be clear about my limits and my needs.

Who I am as a Cuddle Party Facilitator / What you'll find at my Cuddle Parties: Kind, affable, playful, caring. I love meeting new people and working with them through their difficulties and fears.

Facilitator Name: Ramis Lao

Country: Mexico

State: Ciudad de México

City: Ciudad de México

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