About Me: Hello Friends! I’m Gillian, and I’m thrilled to share a bit about my journey with you. Thirteen years ago, I attended my first Cuddle Party, searching for connection and meaningful touch. During the freestyle cuddle time, I found myself sandwiched between two people I had just met, feeling both speechless and profoundly recharged—like a battery coming back to life. That experience was transformative. Over time, this community has become a cornerstone in my life, and the communication practices I’ve learned have deeply enriched my relationships and personal growth. A little more about me: I’ve been in Recovery for over 20 years, delved deeply into inner child work over the past decade, and wear many hats in my creative and personal life. I’m a writer, a publisher, an improviser, and, most importantly, a mother. Thank you for being here and sharing in this journey with me!

Favorite Cuddle Party Rule: Pajamas Stay On! This might seem like an unusual favorite, but it holds profound significance for me. There’s incredible power in separating touch from sexuality, creating space to connect without expectation or obligation. This simple rule fosters a sense of safety and freedom, allowing touch to come from a place of kindness, genuine sharing, and human connection. It’s a beautiful reminder that physical contact can be nurturing and meaningful, all on its own.

What I got out of Cuddle Party personally: Thirteen years ago, I discovered the transformative power of platonic cuddling, and my life has never been the same. It was a revelation: I realized I could express my needs, honor my boundaries, speak my truth, and connect with others in a safe, respectful, and deeply authentic way. Since then, I’ve embraced the art of building healthy relationships—relationships that allow for honest, messy, and courageous conversations. I’ve learned to face discomfort with an open heart, all in the name of growth and evolution. This journey has become one of my deepest passions.

Who I am as a Cuddle Party Facilitator / What you'll find at my Cuddle Parties: My intention is to create a safe, welcoming space where you can show up as your full, authentic self. Here, you’ll discover tools to connect deeply with others, practice honest and compassionate communication, and honor your own needs while respecting those of others. But it’s not just about growth—it’s also about fun, joy, and play! Together, we’ll explore the magic of platonic touch, shared vulnerability, and the lightheartedness that comes from letting go and being present in a supportive, wholesome community. We’re all in this together. Let’s connect, laugh, and create something truly beautiful. 💛