About Me: Hey!! I’m Lindy, Cuddle Party is a concept that I believe in. Being a very shy person, it took me a lot to learn to get close to others and let them get close to me. Cuddle Party was my answer, it helped me to explore myself deeper and helped me express my wants and needs with more clarity. I have made a commitment to stand by the Rules of Cuddle Party. I feel the Rules are a valuable resource to use in everyday life. Keeps me on track, safe, and free to say Yes! to Me. No to things I truly don’t believe in, and I am no longer afraid to speak my mind. I encourage learning through communication. With fun, playful guided activities. I’m not a fan of rejection, though sometimes we need to be told no to learn how to toughen up a bit. To be brave enough to reject others in a way that is safe, firm, and direct without mixed messages. When I tell you no, I’m not rejecting you please don’t take it personally, I’m looking after myself. I have allowed these Rules to flow into my personal life and into my main career as a Transit Operator. I love the contrast. Cuddle Party for me is healthy, calming, and safe. Learning a different way to love, and trust. It’s right for me.
Favorite Cuddle Party Rule: Saying Yes! to Me. This Rule is about choices and taking responsibility and being accountable for each move I make. It applies strongly to me in my life. Though saying No was very awkward and scary at first, it changed my life to learn it and be heard.
What I got out of Cuddle Party personally: Outside of work, I have two groups, one is a support group called Dating After Divorce and Intimate Gathering on Meetup.com, and starting Calgary Healing Touch Workshop – Cuddle party is a fantastic complement to my group I found more about myself and my capabilities. Covid has caused sadness and misfortunes for most people. Yet Cuddle Party is still here, and ready to welcome you back. The workshops really helped with my confidence and determination, it helped me discover what I was missing? As Life can change in a split second. I am looking forward to meeting and discussing your needs. What Are you missing in your life? Let us find out together.
Who I am as a Cuddle Party Facilitator / What you'll find at my Cuddle Parties: The Rules are a valuable resource to use in everyday life. Keeps me on track, safe, and free to say Yes! to Me. No to things I truly do not believe in, and I am no longer afraid to speak my mind. I encourage learning through communication. With fun, playful guided activities. I am not a fan of rejection anymore because I learned how to say No with kindness, and firmly when needed so there will be no mixed messages, like “maybe” does not apply it means No, or silent cues when your body is saying no, but yes comes out instead. Understand that means NO, and it's okay to learn how to do it. I needed this tool, Cuddle party helps us to ease into saying it without judgment, respect for your choices, consensually, to say Yes, no, and you're encouraged to change your mind at any time. In turn, you will learn to respect others when you said No too. You will learn to say, “Thank you for looking after yourself.” It is an interesting experience. Helps you to learn how to toughen up a bit. To be brave enough to reject others in a way that is safe, firm, and direct without mixed messages. When I tell you no, I am not rejecting you please do not take it personally, I am looking after myself. I have allowed these Rules to flow into my personal life and into my main career as a Transit Operator. I love the contrast. Cuddle Party for me is healthy, calming, and safe. Learning a unique way to love, and trust. It is right for me.